Practical Steps To Build Self Confidence
The very first step you can take to build self-confidence is to know how to own your situations. Owning a situation simply means that you accept that you as a person is responsible for your current situation and you are responsible for how you feel about yourself no matter what was the reason. Most of the times instead of looking into our flaws and shortcomings we tend to look at others. We start blaming others for how we feel about ourselves. This might be due to a non-cooperative colleague or a micromanager trying to control your every move or maybe due to some clients. This is how we dive into a blame game and trust me blaming never ends and it does not solve anything.
When you stay into this zone you find an excuse of not taking full responsibilities of your current situations.
Bring Change and Improvement:
As I mentioned above that key to build self confidence is to start taking responsibilities of your situations but when you start this process you need to keep few things in mind
- Do not blame yourself for everything that happens to you
- Do not allow yourself to show pity on yourself
- Never think that you are the only reason for what happened, Remember things happen as a result of multiple factors and you are one of the factors
Every goal needs a plan to achieve success so stop looking elsewhere and start looking at you right into the mirror and start working. When you follow these steps you can surely build self-confidence in a while.